love BEFORE marriage? it is necessary?

in the name of ALLAH...
I LOVE U. UHIBBUK. AKU CINTA PADAMU. WO AI NI. AISYITERO. all these phrase were symbolized the expression of LOVE. but, if these beautiful phrase were use before we married, it will destroy the esthatics value of LOVE. imagine when this man express his feeling to his beloved woman without the 'halal relationship' or what we called ' a marriage', this couple will not feel the sweetness of marriage.they will lead a dull and sour life, unromantic and full of sorrowness. i did not say all the love before marriage will end with divorce, but that is the truth situation that happened in our community. so, if you were asking about my opinion about the title above, i'm bravely say, "be patient. this unique feeling will come by itself when ALLAH throw into our heart..."
conclusion:
I WILL WAIT UNTIL THAT TIME ( my marriage) IS COMING.